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Connie  G. Barwick

Work at Your Own Speed

By , About.com GuideJune 21, 2011

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I posted this photo last year, but I was reminded of it the other day when one of my friends was asking how quickly he should be completing a project. I told him it wasn't a race. Recently, I have been learning Needlepoint, using Cheryl Fall's Needlepoint Stitch Journal. I was impatient with myself at first, but then I realized that I needed to follow my own advice!

Snapping Turtle Photo © Connie G. Barwick
One of my Cross Stitch Rules is "Slow Down! Take your time to get it right."

To further quote myself, "Some stitchers are amazingly fast. I am not always one of them. I have to take my time to avoid mistakes. My progress may be excruciatingly slow, but I would rather take my time and get it right the first time than spend hours removing misplaced stitches. It is very important to work slowly when you try new techniques or stitching fibers such as metallic flosses. Cross Stitch is not a race!"

Read my Cross Stitch Rules, then share your own.

My post is not very wordless today, but if you'd like to see more interesting photos, check out Wordless Wednesday at About.com.

Comments

June 24, 2009 at 8:16 am
(1) Tommye :

I tell people, “It’s not a competition. If you aren’t having fun, why are you doing it?”

June 24, 2009 at 9:58 am
(2) Susan Adcox :

My sister does the most amazing work, whether she is painting, doing needlework or arranging a fruit tray. A big part of her exquisite work is that she takes her time.

June 24, 2009 at 11:16 am
(3) Diane :

I agree that cross stitching is not a race. I’ve finished projects in the past in record time but usually, I can be found working on a cross stitch project a bit at a time. As I’m getting older, my hands get tired and achy much faster than they used to.

If a craft isn’t fun, there is really no point in pursuing it — just my humble opinion :)

June 24, 2009 at 12:41 pm
(4) Beth :

If you go too fast for comfort, you can’t enjoy what you’re doing. There is satisfaction in the finished piece, but for me there’s more in the creation of the piece. :)

June 24, 2009 at 12:44 pm
(5) Nancy :

Besides, look what happened to that legendary rabbit when he thought he’d speed past the tortoise to the finish line!

June 24, 2009 at 2:44 pm
(6) Phylameana :

OMG – If I had to speed-stitch what would be the fun in that? The turtle has the right idea about meandering his way through life.

June 24, 2009 at 3:01 pm
(7) Suzanne :

I definitely think there’s something to be said for taking your time with manual projects. We spend so much time rushing around it makes sense to slow down and take the time to enjoy completing a project – no matter how long it takes.

June 24, 2009 at 3:07 pm
(8) Newlyweds Guide Francesca :

Slow and steady wins the race has always been my motto, so I really appreciate this message — and the turtle is pretty cute, too.

June 24, 2009 at 6:33 pm
(9) Sukhmandir Kaur :

I really enjoyed your blog Connie, I like the way you relate events in your life to your Cross stitch. I confess I always figured that you’d want to stitch as speedily as possible. I’ve found it’s really much more relaxing to take your time with any task rather than working your self up and feeling harassed and pressured. You little turtle was a good reminder of taking life as it comes.

June 27, 2009 at 5:42 pm
(10) Eileen :

Yes, enjoy the journey! That’s what it’s all about.

June 28, 2009 at 7:22 pm
(11) Kathy :

I love this! I recall reading somewhere that cross stitch is a very purposeful activity, and I totally agree. I always joke that each of my projects is a WISP – Work In Slow Process. It’s great to know I’m not alone in taking my time!

June 2, 2010 at 6:34 pm
(12) Sukhmandir Kaur :

A great reminder. Life is so rushed as it is Cross stitch and other creative type projects ought to be opportunities to relax.

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